Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Last entry - photos!
















 We're home now, and enjoying Bay Area weather, opening our mouths in the shower, not brushing teeth with bottled water, eating green vegetables, and drinking tea that is not heavily laced with milk and white sugar (actually we miss the chai - it isn't the same when you make it at home with unfiltered whole cane sugar, but can't bare to use white sugar in my tea unless I'm in India).  - Love Michael & Kaya

Thursday, March 12, 2009

Same Ganga, different City

We're now in Rishikesh... further north, in the foothills of the Himalaya and closer to the mouth of the river Ganga. It was a teary eyed goodbye in Varanasi followed by a 24-hour train ride, an hour tuk-tuk (auto-rikshaw), and a lovely boat ride accross the river to the Guest House we stayed in three years ago.

It's still very much India, and very much the Ganga... and yet vastly different here from where we spent the last three weeks. Where Varanasi is old, dense, grimy, thick, traditional, ancient, filled with the smoke of burning bodies from the funeral pyres, and traversed by those seeking awakening through the mundane... Rishikesh is newer, clean, spacious, fresh, and filled with the sounds of chanting, and traversed by those seeking awakening through perfection. We love both.

Our visit in Varanasi was one of visiting ancient temples, bonding with a family, and coasting along calm waters in a row boat. Our visit in Rishikesh is one of sitting by and dipping in the faster and colder water of the same river, drinking Indian style coffee (lots of cardamom and sugar!), and taking long walks alongside the cutest cows ever.

More to come, with photos we hope!
Love,
Michael and Kaya

Friday, March 6, 2009

Varanasi family photos







Fish Smile Very Difficult


 The Kedareshwar Bed & Breakfast  is very intimate, as there are only 5 rooms.  The last few days we spent a lot of time with two young women from Barcelona who were staying here.  We took a full day trip to Bodhgaya - the place where the Buddha was enlightened.  It is a 5 hour drive each way... and we spent about 5 hours in Bodhgaya itself.  Our long day closed with an extremely intense drive home in the dark, on an unlit road with the driver going very fast, and Michael yelling at him to slow down the whole way.  Martha, Irina and I were in the backseat holding hands and vacillating between watching the road intently and closing our eyes.  In the end, we made it home safely and were met at the taxi by Habu (who also goes by the name Sonu)... we got the best comic relief ever.  

He told us that two men from Spain had checked in to the Bed and Breakfast that day.  Excitedly, he went on, "Spain men VERY DIFFICULT!  One fish smile.  Very difficult.  Spain men bad fish smile.  Very difficult fish smile."

Um, what?!  

We were cracking up.  Does this make sense?  We tried to break it down, word by word.   It took awhile.  And by the next day, after talking to some other family members from the Bed and Breakfast and finally meeting the "very difficult" men from Spain, we garnered the details... which are actually almost as funny as Habu's explanation.

The men are a father and son.  The son is nine months into a two-year around the world trip.  The father arrived that day in India to spend time with his son, and brought his sons favorite food with him from Spain - Calamari.  The Calamari was dried and packed.  And they asked to use the kitchen to cook it.  But the Calamari had gone bad (are we surprised?) and SMELLED very bad.  

The smell was so putrid to Habu that when the men were cooking it, he ran outside and vomited over the porch, down three flights of stairs.

Now, the men from Spain were very nice... but I have to agree with Habu, this is very difficult.  And while he meant "smell" when he said "smile" the story was worth a thousand and one smiles indeed!

Sunday, March 1, 2009

Very lucky


I have to add something to an earlier blog... remember, someone told Michael he was very lucky because Kaya is like a lotus?  Well, a few days ago, I was in the internet shop alone and the owner of the shop asked whether Michael and I were a "love marriage" (as opposed to an arranged marriage).  A love marriage in India is more common in the movies than in reality, so it is very exciting and intriguing.  When I said "yes, it is a love marriage".  He said, "you are very lucky! your husband is a very gentleman.  His face is shining!"

I laughed and said, "yes, I am very lucky!"

I giggled all the way back to the guest house - not that it isn't true, but that Michael definately one-upped me.  I am a lotus, but he is SHINING!  

Ram Nagar & Sarnath

Some photos from our visits to Ram Nagar - the palace of the Maharaja (King) of Kashi (Varanasi) and the site of a fort... and most importantly to locals, the site of the most famous and delicious sweet lassis (a thin yogurt treat).  Inside the palace is a museum, mainly filled with the vehicles of Maharajas past - vehicles means carriages that would have been horse-drawn, automobiles (including old Fords and others from Detroit, Michigan), and palanquins (I was never sure what these were, in my readings of Indian stories, but now I know - they are human-carried carriages.  Some of the palanquins were silver, gold, and ruby studded.  Inside the museum were old articles of clothing, cooking ware, chandaliers, childrens toys, all kept in terrible, dusty, moth-eaten condition. They are old, and they look it.  There were also weapons from many generations - from ivory encrusted swords to rifles.  And some very scary looking weapons indeed - swords and knives that look like they kill on the way out rather than on the way in!  It turns out the current Maharaj actually still lives here, above the areas we are allowed to puruse.  The palace was full of school children while we were there... staring at us unabashadly and grinning back only when we smiled first.



Also, photos from Sarnath - a village that is 6km away from Varanasi (but an hour drive by car or auto-rickshaw because of traffic). This is the site where the Buddha came after his Self-realization to give the first teachings.  There are relics of the Buddha here, as well as a large excavation site that has revealed what was most likely a very large monastary from the time of the Buddha.  Also a 
museum, as well as temples installed by Buddhist organizations from Tibet, Thailand, China, and Japan.  





One very small portion of the family at kedeshwar guest house. Tried to load more photos but it wouldn't work, slow internet connection right now! We'll try again tomorrow.  

We are loving Varanasi, and have extended our stay another week!  The family is so sweet, they are full of the spirit of Ganesh - opening all kinds of doorways for us to layers and pathways in this city that we would not have found.  And they are opening our hearts every day with smiles, laughter, stories, home-cooked food, and even inviting us to sit on their family bed - I can't even imagine how many of them sleep in this particular bed on a given night - and read their palms. 

Friday, February 27, 2009

Some quotes and images of Varanasi






"Benaras is older than history, older than tradition, older even than legend, and looks twice as old as all of them put together!" - Mark Twain

"The city illumines truth and reveals reality.   It does not bring new wonders into the scope of vision, but enables one to see what is alrealdy there.  Where this eternal light intersects the earth, it is known as Kashi (Varanasi)". - Diana L. Eck

"up and down the ghats, all day long, but especially in the early morning, stream the endless course of pilgrims, ragged tramps, aged crones, horrible beggars, hawkers, Brahmin preists, sacred bulls and cows, Hindu preachers wealthy rajas (kings) or bankers in gay palanquins.  Fakirs, pariah dogs, and scoffing globetrotters from Europe and America". - W.S. Caine

"...crammed perspective of platform,s soaring stairways, sculptured temples, majestic palaces, softening away into the distances; and there is movement, motion, human life everywhere, and brilliantly costumed - streaming in rainbows up and down the lofty stairways..." - Mark Tain

Thursday, February 26, 2009

Crazy India

a common conversation - I'll write it in english, though our hindi vocabulary is devloping dhiri dhiri (slowly, slowly) and the conversation is usually in a mix of broken english and more broken Hindi.

"yes, sir boat ride?"
-"how much?"
"as you like"
- "no, today we are walking"
"which country you from?"
-"America"
"Aah, America, very nice country! Now especially nice with Obama, and my favorite singer is from there".
- "who is your favorite singer?"
"Michael Jackson!"
- "aah yes"
"how do you find India?"
- "we love India"
"why you like India?"
- "she is a yoga teacher and I study jyotish (astrology)"
"you (Michael) are very lucky, your wife (Kaya) is like a lotus. I will call her Lotus."

Of course, I'll leave it at that!!!

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Shivaratri Festival Day




There are so many layers of activity in India all the time, and at festival times it is even more... children enjoying an extra day off from school, little girls riding around on their fathers shoulders, young boys and grown men flying purple kites, women bathing in the ganga at the woemnen's bathing ghat, men of all ages running around drying off in their underwear and cloth wraps at all the other ghats, western hippie tourists playing saxaphones or orgaonizing drum circles or advertising art exhibitions; naga babas, aghori babas, yogis, monks, danda swamis, Brahmin preists and pujaris perpfomring the religious and spiritual rites of their lineages as many before them have done for thousands of years.  Hindus and yogis fast all day and fire, insence, bang (hashish), coconuts, sweets, and the nectars of the Indian traditions - milk, yogurt, butter, ghee, honey, and ganga water are everywhere being consumed by the senses and used in ceremony in honor of Shivaratri.  

We spent 5 intense hours in a very small temple room at the top of a long flight of steps up from the river... it was like being in a space ship!

Late at night, I looked down from the veranda of our guest house to see a brand new little temple surrounded on all sides.  In classical Indian form, on one side of the temple a Brahmin priest was giving blessings while on the other side young men and small boys were blasting club-beat Hindi music from a boom box and dancing. All of this is going on simultaneously and as part of the same celebration.  And somehow, it all fits together.

Saturday, February 21, 2009

Kashi photos




Our "family" boats... we are staying in the guest house run by Gopal and his family - brothers mintu, pintu, and cousin narayan.  Their family owns 10 boats for coasting along the Ganga river.  The youngest part of their team, Sonu, calls us Chachi and Chaha (aunti and uncle).  He's 20, which makes us old enought to be aunti and uncle.  And the whole family insists we are part of the family as well.  They call Rama, "mama".  

Also, a photo a young boy on our boat preparing an offering of light and flowers for us to place in the river at sunset.  And Kaya after dark on the boat in front of the evening Ganga-arati (blessing fire ceremony to the river).

And Michael in our room, during one of the few moments of down time we've had... it's been a full schedule almost!

Thursday, February 19, 2009

kashi... varanasi... benares

Aaah, India! Concentrated, ecstatic, congested, aromatic, colorful India. We arrived in Delhi and to our hotel to sleep for a full 5 hours - good amount for the first night in India - I used earplugs, Michael used melatonin. Awoke and had enough time for a perfect indian greasy breakfast with lots of sugary caffein and off to the airport for our flight to Kashi.
Only in India can they fill a 60 minute flight to the brim with service, kitch and delicacy from take off to landing. First we were given lime water - a sweet, salty, sour drink (more than we can handle yet on the first day in India... give us another week to acclamate and we might love it). Then they came around with a "snack" - which was a hot meal. Then they came with tea and coffee and "after mint" (a post meal digestive and mouth freshening mix of fennel, candy, and perfume for chewing), finally they came around with literally... a basket of candy!! A basket of candy. We were cracking up.
We arrived in Kashi and were picked up by Narayan... a close, family-like dear one of Nirmalananda-ma (the swami previously known as Rama Berch). An hour drive through open great land spotted with families and bicycles... toward more congested area of the city. On the outskirts, the city is more polished - with even a mall and large movie theaters. As we get closer to the ganga (ganges river) we meet the edge of the old city, where the streets are very narrow, and can't be attempted by four-wheel vehicles. We walk the rest of the way through winding, narrow, brown-gray pathways to the guest house, and up a narrow, brown-gray staircase to our lovely room. Small, but airy and clean with a delicously firm bed, almost as hard as the floor. Our heads lean south to sleep - a good direction according to vastu shastra (the ancient indian teachings on design and arrangement). A single turquoise wall meets a pale lavendar ceiling. Outside our door a veranda overlooking the Ganga where we take tea and breakfast every morning. Below, outside our window and down two stories a serious game of chess is happening... not between two, but amongst what appears to be teams of young men, crouding around. To the left of the veranda, two boys play cricket on their porch. And below, floating in the water are the wooden row boats that we will sit in every sunrise and sunset that we are here. Every morning and evening we quietly coast along the river and peer at the weaving of ancient mysteries with modern curiousities that unfold before our eyes along the water and land.
This city is known as Kashi to pilgrims and locals, Varanasi to tourists, and Benares to officials. Or so we've been told so far... more to come with hopefully photos!
Love, M & K

Sunday, February 15, 2009

East Coast Photos



Here is Michael with Celia having a spitting fest.  Celia has the most awesome cheecks and lips for such activities!   Janet (Celia's mom) & Kaya (Jen) - best friends since five years old - are laughing hysterically at this.  
Kaya and Jean (Michael's mom) - we look miserable!  We are actually just RELAXED and have probably had a bit of tea at this point in the day.

East Coast visit

This is our first try at a blog... but seems an easy way for folks who are interested to get the little blurbs about our travels... we've been in Michigan and NJ visiting family and friends and experiencing actual weather.  India - tomorrow!